Over the years, I’ve seen and heard christian artistes say “Pastors and church leaders are not supportive of their ministries/art” and it is not just speculation, they (the artistes) really believe that the church leaders aren’t doing anything to support and appreciate their art.

Are the artistes right? Are the leaders of the church really unsupportive of christian artistes? are the expectations from the artistes justifiable? what is the position of scripture as to how church leaders should be involved with artistes and ministers alike? These and more i will attempt to answer in this article..

I once asked an artiste, “what do you expect from your church leader as regards being supportive of your art?”  He replied “Create opportunities/platforms for me to showcase my art by inviting me to minister on stage, sponsor certain projects and stuffs like that.”

This really is the mindset/expectations of most christian artistes. They believe that church leaders should invest more into artist development via sponsorship, patronage and the likes. While some may agree that these expectations are just, let’s find out from scripture what exactly is the job description of the leaders and how it relates to artist appreciation and development.

Ephesians 4:11-12 NKJV

“And He Himself gave some to  be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.”

From the above text, we can identify the five angles to church leadership and more so what their assignment is. The primary role of church leadership is to ‘equip’ ‘the saints’ for the ‘work’ of the ministry. First thing i’d like to point out is that the leaders aren’t called to do the work but to equip those (the members) who are to do them. Second implication of the above text is that every church member is called into ministerial work. This challenges the scope of reasoning we are used to because we think ministerial work is confined to the fore-walls of church and to the leaders but on the contrary, the ministerial work is for us (the saints).

Now onto the leaders, they are to equip! which means that the artiste’s expectation of support from the leaders are justified. Having established that, the next question is ‘How are the leaders expected to go about this equipping business?’ Quite straight forward i must say. The gift of the Spirit bestowed upon each leader gives a clear indication of how each is to go about equipping. If an apostle, he is to equip through apostleship. If a prophet, by prophesying. If an evangelist, by evangelism. If a teacher, by teaching and lastly by pastoring if a pastor.

From this perspective, we can now see that although the artistes are right to expect support from the leaders, they wrong on how the support should come. As an artiste, you fall into the ‘saints’ category and as such, you have the right to be grieved if the prophet isn’t guiding you in the prophetic, if the teacher isn’t teaching you the word that you clearly need to do the work and so on. But if they are working within the scope of their appointment, then you shouldn’t fault them for not equipping you the way you expect for their expectation to fulfill is God’s not yours.

But you need exposure and promotion, you need airplay and screen time, you need sponsorship for your tours and concerts, you need to be able to market your art and so on. How are all these to come about? The SAINTS. As it is your ministerial duty to be an artist, it is the ministerial duty of some other saint sitting in the congregation to be a marketer, another a TV/radio station owner, another an on-air personality, another a concert promoter, another a financial investor etc. Your work ought to be your ministry. Because most people are not aware or are negligent of this duty, you discover that the expectations from the leaders are enormous and out of place.

Dear Artiste, who do you need to play your songs? An OAP not your church leader. Who do you need to get sales for your Cd’s? A marketer not your church leader. Who do you need to get you performance opportunities? A manager not your church leader. Who do you need to finance a project of yours? A financial investor not your church leader. Whatever it is you think you need to excel in your ministry, it has be deposited into several individual accounts that each may supply one to the other for overall growth of the body. (As seen in vs 16 of our anchor text.)

The duty of the leader is to equip the financial investor, the promoter, the marketer, the artiste and everyone else in the same manner; through their spiritual gifts while it is expected of the saints to consolidate with one another to experience growth and effectiveness in the carrying out of their ministerial duties that none may be left struggling.

Again if the leaders are not fulfilling their part to equip the saints, then you have a right to be aggrieved. But if they are, shove your grievances asides and network with your fellow saint to execute whatever you have plans to do.

This is no rocket science. Do we not have Christians who are radio and TV station owners? Do we not have Christians who are OAP’s? Do we not have Christians who are promoters and managers?! Quite clearly we do! As a matter of fact, we have more professing Christians in entertainment/art than those of other religions so why then are christian artistes suffering/complaining of neglect?! it just shows how unhealthy the state of the flock is. In line with this, church leaders will have to take that equipping business more seriously to make the saints aware that your work is your ministry and a fellow saint needs you to be able to do theirs more effectively.

Dear artiste, clearly you can see that your expectations from the leaders were misguided. what you seek is not standing on the pulpit before you, it is sitted in the pew right beside you.

Let the word guide our hearts aright.


Posted: January 28, 2017 in Uncategorized

​i’ve been told: that being commited is bondage..but bondage never feels this free or how being stuck with one bores yet boredom has never been more intriguing…Gallons of water may make an ocean but a cup is mine, so i drink from my cistern alone because only in you my satisfaction i find.. 

How you rose into my life and turned this desert into a beautiful garden..if marriage is indeed prison, i couldn’t have asked for a better warden.. on my own, i’m an irregular piece of a jigsaw puzzle but fitting into you reveals the most beautiful portrait ever painted; US! 

your love for me has dug a bottomless pit in my heart because its unending, now i can’t get enough of you for my hunger of you is filled with more hunger..How can i live without you? I’m like a kid in a candy store, everything i find in you is sweet! I’m not bothered about tooth aches for as long as i’m close-up with you i’ll flourish. My jokes are lame but you laugh anyways, thanks for the crutches..

i always thought being a rib was worthless considering my past encounters with dogs but now i feel safe in your care like you are a doctor of orthopedics.. Even when our world goes dark, the resulting sparks from the collision of our souls would light our path and with our two great lights, we’ll never have any worry about sights.. 


Posted: June 25, 2015 in Uncategorized


I was trapped sometime ago in traffic when the presidential motorcade drove past and while we waited, someone said “I thought Mr President would be driven in a simple car seeing that he comes across as simple individual.” As he yet spoke, i began to ponder on the subject and then i came to an understanding of what it means to be a man under authority.
Yes he may indeed be a simple individual who would prefer not to be associated with the flashy things of life but once he became the president of the Federal Republic, he siezed to have a life of his own and now lives a life as dictated by the authority by which he is made president. He may prefer to drive or be driven around in a single ‘everyday’ car but as the GCFR, the office he occupies requires him to be driven in a special class mercedes benz to which he must oblige.
But no only his choice of car but where he goes, when he goes, with whom he associates, what he says, where he lives and so on. Although being under authority comes with its own privileges, it also requires that you forfeit your ‘rights’ and preferences as an individual.

Away from the GCFR to the diplomatic society. A diplomat is a representative of a country or government in a foreign land. And while in active service, he stands as the intermediary between both countries hence whatever he says or does is assumed to be voice or act of the country he represents. As a diplomat, you don’t just go where you want to go, you don’t say what you want to say, you don’t get to express your feelings, you certainly don’t act the way you would want to but in accordance to the authority which you represent because of the place of authority you occupy, knowing that the authority comes before any personal preference.

So scripture says “We are ambassadors of Christ” (2Cor 5:20) which implies that as an earthly diplomat represents his government, we also ought to represent Christ and to effectively do that, we are required to forfeit our ‘rights’ and preferences. Hence as representatives of Christ, we no longer get to do what we feel like, say what we want how we want, we don’t get to dress the way we feel, go wherever we desire whenever we so do and so on, our everyday life must reflect the values of the government we represent.
Sometimes there may be nothing wrong with what we desire but as  people under authority, we are called to live a surrendered life which requires that we sacrifice even our legitimates for the sake of the kingdom.
Know this, that how we present ourselves is the way the people will see Christ. If we present ourselves as loving people, then Christ will be seen as loving and if we present ourselves as unruly, Christ is seen as such because we are the Christ they see, which is why God would say “My Name is blasphemed among the gentiles because of you.” (Ezekiel 36:22).

To this end, if indeed we are ambassadors of Christ, we must let go of ourselves that Christ might be seen in and through us. As a man under authority, you are dead to yourself. This the apostle Paul understood hence the statement “I have been crucified with Christ, it is no longer I who live but Christ lives in me.” (Gal 2:20)
Let this be your watch word O ambassador of Christ, that Christ now lives in you and as such, you no longer get to do whatever pleases you but that which pleases Him whom you represent.

The life of an ambassador is that of maturity as it requires total and utmost surrender.
For “when you were young, you girded yourself and did what you wished; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will gird you and carry you where you do not wish.” (John 21:18)

Recognise God’s authority over your life today and submit yourself to it that He might be glorified in you. This is what it means to have the ‘mind of Christ’.


Having seen how much loss have befallen us in the death of our officers and men most of whom were still in their youth, i couldn’t help but wail with a broken heart and a sober spirit. And while in the midst of such grieving times, a word came to me; a word that broke my heart the more, much more than the news of the death of these vibrant young men/women. i title this SACRIFICE.
Once upon a time, because mankind was in a fallen state, God instituted the system of atonement, wherefore, once a year, the high priest must enter into the holy of holies to present the blood for the remission of his sins and that of the entire Israel until the next year. This is so critial because the fate of the people rested upon the high priest and the acceptance of their own sacrifice was dependent on whatever went down between God and the high priest. All of the people looked to the high priest to present his sacrifice before the Lord which when accepted is an assurance that theirs too is accepted because he, the high priest advocates for the people.
But in these times, seeing that the blood of animals couldn’t provide eternal remission, God has appointed for Himself a new High priest with a new order; Jesus Christ, who presented His blood as the token of atonement once and for all, that in Him, we might recieve eternal remission of sin by believing in Him and in His sacrifice and live in the confidence that every other sacrifice is accepted by God in Him seeing that He entered and remains in the holiest for all men.
Now therefore beloved, you who give up your freedom that the rest of us may live freely, you who put yourselves in danger while patroling the streets night & day that the rest of us may live in safety, you who forsake the comfort of your families and loved ones that we may enjoy the company of ours, i write this in hope that you be reconciled to God in Christ Jesus. For if you are yet in Him, there remains a need for the remission of your sins. I beg you with urgency, to trust in the sacrifice of our eternal High Priest; Jesus Christ, for in so doing, you not only obtain remission of sin but also acceptance; that these sacrifices you offer up daily may be acceptable in the sight of God who reigns forever.
For until you do, Dear beloved, i’m afraid (and i say with deep sadness) that the sacrifice of your time, energy, relationships, freedom, even the ultimate sacrifice of your life will be worthless and unacceptable to God, seeing that it is presented outside of His High Priest and of His divine order. And so it will be that having spent your life in service, it ends up being in vain.
Thanks for all you do; i and mine remain indebted and grateful to you; Our country remains indebted to you.
But please, my debt to you will mean nothing if your sacrifice is unaccepted. Make it count! God bless you.

Scriptural References; Leveticus 16, Romans 3:25, Hebrews 4:14-16, 5:1-11, 7,8,9 & 10.

the wall 2

A wall is a structure that provides security/protection over a defined area. It is usually erected either to protect outsiders from what is inside, or to protect insiders from the world outside. A wall can also be erected for control i.e. to regulate the activities of those within. One of the reasons why walls are erected is fear; the fear of what those inside can do (as in a penitentiary), or the fear of what those outside can do (as in house fences). This fear basically comes from what you have seen and/or heard, first hand experiences or that of others shared.

In the context, relationship, most people erect walls in an attempt to protect themselves from the world outside while a few do so to protect the world from themselves; the man/woman within. For those who had been hurt and/or betrayed, a wall is erected so they don’t have to go through the hurt and pain again while for those who are witnesses to the experiences of the former, it’s so they don’t have to experience it themselves. For those who feel they are the cause of pain to others, it is so that no one will ever have to suffer in their hands again.


  • The height of the wall is determined by the level of fear in its builder. The wall erected by one who’d been hurt once and that of one who’d gone through several heartbreaks cannot be the same.
  • The wall when erected shuts out everyone from coming in; the good & the bad, those you want to keep away and those you have dire need for.
  • The wall creates a false reality; that only the life of pain and bitterness within the wall is real, love and happiness is illusory.
  • Within the wall, you are confined to only two aspects of reality; the past and a present being governed by your past. The future is hardly ever imagined without the domination of the past. The wall makes you myopic.
  • The wall tells you that everyone else is the problem so you don’t see the need for self-examination and possible correction where needed.
  • The longer you stay confined within the wall, the slimmer your chances of ever being able to take it down.
  • At the initial stage, you build the wall but at the latter stages, the wall builds you.
  • The wall is only attracted to those in a similar situation as you because it feeds on their experiences and uses the fear generated to grow stronger and taller.
  • The wall tells you that ‘the next is just like the ex, why go through that again?!’
  • The wall gains more strength from prejudices and assumptions.
  • The wall kills every atom of hope and aspiration you may have concerning future relationship success.
  • The wall never heals. If anything, it merely places a band aid over the wound without any medication.
  • It never gets better within the wall. The state you were in when the wall was erected is the state you’ll remain in until the wall is pulled down.
  • The wall claims it’s looking out for you but in truth, it’s only looking out for itself. Try taking it down and see!
  • The wall kicks out every genuine attempt to help you because it sees that as a threat to its existence and rightly so.
  • The wall is like a prison guard who keeps you locked in and is swift to interrupt once he feels you are getting too close to someone from the outside.
  • The wall is a parasite; it feeds off you in other to stay alive.
  • The wall tells you that you’ll never feel the pain of betrayal again as long as you remain in it but it never mentions that you’ll also never experience the beauty of love no more.
  • The wall tells you that the promise of light is a deception just so you can remain within the darkness it brings.
  • The wall is sick and obsessed. He will rather kill you that see you being happy with anyone else other than himself.
  • The wall will lose his hold over you when you truly understand what love and being in love really entails.

You see, you can’t truly love without putting yourself in harms’ way; for to love is to be vulnerable. And as sad as it may sound, true love never promises that its recipient will reciprocate, it only hopes that it does. No matter how well you nurture a rose, it never grows without thorns, so you see that the fire is what makes the gold pure. If there was no exam, how would you prove that love never fails?! If there was no attempted rivalry, how can you say for sure that love never envies?! If she’s not been faced with the lie, how would love rejoice in the truth?! If there was nothing to suffer, why would love need to endure all things?!

Love says be meek; the wall says you’re weak. Love aims at the petals; the wall focuses on the thorns. Love says apologise; the wall says you were never wrong. Love says don’t be rude; the wall says every chic is better with a little attitude. Notice that the wall is against everything that love stands for. And if God is love, who then is the wall?! Think about it!


Posted: March 23, 2015 in Uncategorized


Have you ever walked into the mall to buy an empty bottle of coke? So what’s the big hype about the “coke bottle” figure that pop culture is eagerly selling these days?

From music videos to movie screens, red carpet parades and all that, one is readily greeted with the view of a woman with enormous body curves being celebrated as the ideal woman or at least, what she should look like. This trend has seen a huge number of women engage in surgical procedures to increase their body frame and curves, just so they can meet up to this requirement of being today’s woman.

Worse than this display of inferiority complexes, is the fast spreading deception that your body frame as a woman is what earns or keeps your man. Again I ask who goes to the mall just to buy an empty coke bottle? These days’ people opt for cans or plastics as well as bottles but in spite of the difference in preference, they all want coke! The role of the package is simply to attract you to the content so it’s folly to spend your capital on the package when you don’t have content.

What happens when you buy an item only to discover that what is inside isn’t what was portrayed on the pack? You feel cheated. You are most likely to ask for a refund from the seller or discard the item in rage and anger. How much more when you discover that the pack is empty? The consequences are devastating as shown by the ever increasing rate of divorce and single motherhood.

Now more than ever, we see women fill themselves up with implants. Still, the stats aren’t in their favour as more and more marriages are hitting rock bottom while even more ladies end up being unmarried single parents. Where are the men? Why aren’t they staying? The curves are getting wider and wider while at the same pace, commitment is getting thinner and thinner. What does that tell you?  The booty might get him but it sure won’t keep him; content is absolute while packaging is relative. Figure is worthless without content just as a coke bottle is without the coke in it.

I think it’s about time we tell ourselves the truth and place emphasis on what is most essential; CONTENT DEVELOPMENT. Develop and build your content first before you start thinking about packaging. If Coca Cola had spent their business career focusing on the shape of the bottle instead of the coke itself, would you even use it as a reference point for your body frame today? Think about it!

So I carried out a quick survey on my BBM where I asked some guys “What are the top 5 attributes you seek when you’re looking to date a woman?”

Below are their responses

  1. Aiken: In no particular order her hair, her fashion sense, her height, level of intelligence and her love for God.
  2. Kaybee: Beauty (in & out), character, education (enlightenment & intelligence), her background and her level of contentment.
  3. Ace Ibrahim: Her faith, character, looks, family and orientation.
  4. Monlee: Godliness, hard work & focus, healthy relationships, self-care and her ability to be taught.
  5. Foursyte: Intelligence, beauty, God fearing, hard work and understanding.
  6. Bidemi: Understanding, hardworking, supportive (not being overly dependent & able to support you in all aspects), God fearing and same vision (& complimentary efforts).
  7. DjEnersty: God fearing, supportive, beautiful and independent.
  8. eazY: In no particular order she must have a great music taste and be musically gifted, be in love with Jesus, beautiful and adorable, funny.
  9. Demola: She has to be expressive and fun to be with, not self-centred, kind, empathetic and prayerful.
  10. Lutor: Honors God’s word, intelligent, funny, confident and beautiful.
  11. Mac D: God fearing, learning spirit, beautiful, character/attitude and her ability to cook.
  12. Samson: Her understanding of life & its realities, attitude, how motherly she is (home management), not boring and spiritual.
  13. Gold: Godly, knowledgeable in entertainment/fashion, love for children, teachable, fluency in English & at least one local dialect.
  14. Greatman: Beautiful, intelligent, hard work, visionary and a love for God.
  15. Shola: loves God, common purpose, intelligent/smart, ability to cook & love for hip-hop and looks/body.

Haven heard from the men, let’s do a little calculation. On an average, the attributes they seek are as follows:

  1. Godly
  2. Intelligence
  3. Looks
  4. Character
  5. Hardworking

Assuming your coke bottle physique is what was referred to as “looks”, if that’s all you’ve got. 1/5 isn’t known to be a pass mark is it? Let’s build ourselves for the better.

NB: This article does not exclude the aspect that men are said to be made of beards and abs which have also seen a stereotypic look at the modern man. It does however aim that while appearance is needful, it shouldn’t be the primary reason why anyone should go into a relationship whether male or female. Also, I’m not in any way suggesting that the increasing rate of failed marriages or single motherhood is entirely the fault of the female gender as that will be irrational and insensitive given that men share the same amount of responsibility in seeing a marriage work as do the women.

To have a perfect body frame without good character is nothing more than having a skull with no brain. – Kruseaphix.


Posted: March 13, 2015 in Uncategorized


It’s amazing that via death the perfection of life and its beauty is revealed! (An excerpt from a poem of mine ‘Amazing’)

Haven given much thought to life, I discovered a simple truth, that we can never truly appreciate life without the consciousness of death. Given all the sadness and hurt that is often associated with death, there’s also this realization it brings along with it: everything around us is temporary; from money to relationships, pleasure, pain, success, failure and everything you can think about. Once this reality dawns on you, it is bound to initiate either of these two types of responses: that life in itself is meaningless since it cannot be held onto, and as such you denature every atom of essence you had once ascribed to it, leading to a carefree approach to all that surrounds you, OR that life should be maximized at every turn because there’s no guarantee of a second chance, which prompts you to ascribe more value to life, leading to a careful approach to all that surrounds you. Of these two responses, one causes you to undermine the fundamentals of life like love and relationships and the other causes you to highly esteem them. One leads to a passive approach to life; the other ignites a proactive response. With one, you simply live to die and with the other, you die to live. Either ways, death throws a coin to your face and the side you choose to focus on is totally dependent on you.

Too many people spend their last moments in retrospect; regretting certain decisions they made; wishing they had taken certain steps they avoided; hoping for a chance to right some of their wrongs or at least attempt to; disgusted at the fact that they have given their all to one part of their life only to realize that, that part of them wasn’t the most important. At the harvest, that’s when the wheat are separated from the tares and how it will hurt to discover that you have spent your time, energy and resources nurturing weeds instead of the good seeds. For these people, the reality of death struck them at a moment too late. They were so busy trying to live whilst numb to the sure cold embrace of death, they ran without keeping the end in perspective and as a result of which, the race was vague; They chased everything but caught little or nothing. ‘For where there’s no vision, the people are without restraint.’

But this does not have to be you. Yes experience is a good teacher but it doesn’t have to be yours. Here’s an opportunity to learn from the mistakes of others at no cost at all. If you will just take a moment to go through the following exercises, I assure you, your approach to life and your life in itself will never remain the same. By investing the next couple of minutes, you are sure to save a whole lifetime.


(Separating the wheat from the tares.)


  1. Write down the five things that mean the most to you in life.
  2. On a scale of 1-10, how much is your input on them (By this I mean your time, energy and resources)
  3. Write down five things you want to be remembered for by the following sets of people:
  • Your parents (if they are still alive)
  • Your child/children
  • Your spouse
  • Your friends
  • Your Church/Religious association
  • Your colleagues
  • Your country

4. If you die now, will your world (the above stated sets of people) we better off or ruined without you?
5. If indeed there are such places as heaven and hell, if you pass away at this moment, where are you headed?

NB: if you aren’t married or you are without a child, answer questions 3 i & ii regardless for it will help you prepare for their coming. Also, be sure to write down your answers in a journal or in a choice book of yours and not on a random sheet of paper; that way, you can easily go back to them when the need arises. It is important that you keep them ever before you. If you can, stick them with a sticker pad or with a pin on your bed-head, close to your dressing mirror or on the door of your room; that way you will never forget to run by them. Given that your priorities can be subject to change, if there arise such changes, be sure to modify them in the journal or book wherein the previous ones were written.

Majority of the questions are relationship-centered because from my observation, that is the core of our existence on earth and by building healthy relationships, you are in turn building a healthy life.

“It is vanity to spend your whole life living for your loved ones without spending as much time living with them.” – Kruseaphix



Posted: February 23, 2015 in Uncategorized

I stumbled upon a Facebook post last week that challenged the very foundation upon which my life is grounded; talking about my Christian faith. It had a bold caption that read “THIS IS WHY YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN TODAY” whilst displaying the image of a black slave being whipped by a white master.


It went on to say that blacks weren’t originally Christians but were tortured and forced by their white masters to share in their faith and belief, which led to the first generation of black Christians who subsequently passed it on to successive generations and here we are today.

As it is for any topic of this sort on social media, it attracted series of responses, follow-up questions & counter responses, those who are for and those who are against, and being a black Christian myself, I was poised to go on the defensive but relented to really consider the issue.

Apparently, the writer was right in some way. Black slaves weren’t originally Christians, their white masters were and yes, some were forced to practice Christianity outside of their own volition which saw the transcendence of that belief across generations.

“This is probably why most blacks were Christians then but is this why I’m a Christian now?” I thought to myself. Am I a professing Christian now only because my ancestors were forced to be one? Absolutely not!  This I said after several minutes of pondering on the subject. At this point, I had found my answer, my perfect response to the topic of discussion.

Here’s my answer: “I really don’t know why anyone else is a Christian, but this I know, that I am a Christian today because the Lord Jesus willingly accepted upon Himself, the consequences of my guilt and died on the cross to show His love for me. A love I probably would have doubted but for those who left the comfort of their families and homes and sailed millions of miles across the Atlantic, scorched by the unfriendly African weather, died from malaria and other ailments just to tell me of the same love. In and through them, I saw and experienced the love of God. This is why I’m a Christian today: because of the sacrifice my Lord Jesus and that of His missionaries, who gave up everything just like He did for the same reason; that I might be saved.”

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Now i ask you, why are you a Christian? Is it simply because you were born into a Christian home and you dare not break the family heritage? Could it be that it’s because your parents took you to church and exposed you to religious activities throughout your early years and now you just find yourself observing the same routine, haven developed a habit of it & being caught in the web of a ‘holy addiction’? Is it because of the vast population of professing Christians? Are you just following the trend? Why are you a Christian? Ask yourself! Religion can be passed on as a heritage but salvation can’t be.  We are saved not because we merely profess to be Christians but by believing in Christ Jesus and having faith in Him.

If you sincerely cannot profess Christianity based on a personal conviction, then I’d suggest you take time out and ponder on the following questions:  what is being a Christian really about? Why should i be one? And do i want to be one? Because the Lord Jesus Himself told His disciples that “no one builds a house without first counting the cost” and it’s only logical to go through the terms of a contract before signing one lest somewhere along the line you suffer shipwreck, or in the end, He’ll say ‘I never knew you’ and all you might have done, even in His name would count for nothing.

For by association, the grains and tares grow together on the same soil and benefit from the same nutrients, but when the time for the harvest is come, the Lord of the harvest will say “Gather the grains into my barn but throw out the tares into the fire where there’ll be wailing and gnashing of teeth.” Think about it!


Posted: June 4, 2014 in Uncategorized

Hey people, I read something by a man that questioned a whole lot of my aspirations and the motive behind them. Although it seemed hard, I couldn’t but agree to the fact he was saying the truth. Please open your hearts as we receive his words and whatever questions you may have as a result of this, or a part of the article you don’t agree with, do kindly leave it in the comment box and it will be responded to. Thanks!


I’ve spent the most part of the last 8hrs listening to sermons. (Something I don’t do nearly as often as I should). And I’ve been hearing a lot of things that are too difficult to bear (Which is obviously the reason why I don’t listen to sermons much).


But out of the many things that have struck me this morning, the biggest one would be that MARRIAGE AND OTHER THINGS WE ARE TAUGHT TO ASPIRE TO ARE JUST MEANS TO, OR BY PRODUCTS OF ASPIRING TO THE ONLY WORTHY ASPIRATION.


Now I remember a couple of days back when my friend Manasseh Mashi posted  on facebook something similar. And I was like, “Yeah! Tell em! This is soooo true! Profound! Bla bla bla, and other I’m-smarter-than-everybody-else cosign statements that I usually make”. But it really didn’t hit me as hard as it did today. Maybe because I was too busy being disgusted about how stupid people are. Yea, I know, I’m a jerk. And I kinda like that. LoooL! (Trusting God to help me with that).


A few months back when Beyonce decided to break the world with her album (By the way it had some great tracks but I don’t think overall it’s her best album, but I digress), something stood out to me. And it was the Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie talk that was on Flawless. The most profound thing she said was that women are taught to aspire to marriage. And she challenged that culture. I agree with her on that.


Now thinking about it today, plus the other stuff I just heard, plus the other stuff my larger than life smart headed, all knowing self knows (I don’t even practise a lot of the things I “know”), I just landed on a profound realization that all but ONE thing we are taught to aspire to as happy endings or success are merely just a means to or by products of having that ONE worthy aspiration.


Take men for instance. We are taught to 1 – be serious with our “formal education”, which I believe by far to be a hoax. Quote me anywhere. Just kidding, don’t quote me please. So that we can 2- get a good job, so we can 3 – Get a good wife (in a way men are taught to aspire to marriage too) and 4 – have children, 5 – raise the children in the most comfortable way and make sure they don’t suffer, 6 – do something with our lives that will make a whole lot of people clap for us and want to use our names to promote their events and want us to make appearances at their weddings and see us at the airport and gush, cry and faint for merely being in our presence and FINALLY, when we die our obituary will be all over World Wide News and they’ll organize memorial concerts, dinners, galas, conferences and scholarships  in our names and name airports, roads, libraries, bathrooms; well, basically any building you can get after us.


I’m sure that behind what we believe to be worthwhile impact is a motivation or drive that is fueled by some, most or even all of the aspirations I just mentioned plus a whole lot more that I didn’t mention. But what we’re almost never taught or at least taught in a more complete way, is that these things are only a means to or by products of the ONLY worthy aspiration there is. Some of them help you get where you’re going, while the others happen because you decided to aspire to the right thing. Not like they’re really important sef.


Francis Chan says, “There are bigger things than a happy marriage, sorry ONE thing…” “… When you focus on that, a happy marriage is A by product”. There is a bigger thing than getting married to that trophy wife or husband, having the best/happiest marriage/children in the world, getting this paper, turning up, turning down, ”leaving a legacy” (I know why I put it in quotes), and every other thing that we aspire to. When we aspire to the right all the things that we need will fall in place. I’m having a hard time getting myself to live that life right now. It won’t be easy for you too but it’s the one thing we all need to do.


I know this is just a bunch of poorly arranged musings that I just spilled out. Forgive me for not taking my writing class more seriously. I promise to ASPIRE to be a better writer in the future. It’s funny that this started out as a facebook status update but look at what we have here – a very long, probably boring “Open Letter”. If you no like am, tweet fight the person that you got the link to this from. I refuse to take responsibility for boring you this morning.


It is my hope that somewhere inside this unprofessionally written note of mine, you find the central idea that I am trying to communicate; to myself first and then to you.


So initially I was gonna end this with this…

And yea yea, I hear you say, “But you forgot to say that ONE thing we should all aspire to”. Well I didn’t forget; I decided not to. Aren’t you tired of being told what to do? Yes I know (nods head in feign sympathy as you say, “I know right?”), I’m just as tired as you are too. So go figure. LoooL!


But my host graciously insisted that I said what that one thing and this is what I will leave you with.

Matthew 6.33. One of the more commonly quoted scriptures that we don’t always like to think through. So I hope we get the message.



‪Makan King David
Music Producer/Songwriter/Business Creative



Have there ever been a time in your life when every thing seemed so out of place? A time when you’re faced with great adversity and tribulation that you constantly find yourself in despair or depression? Have you ever faced so much pressure from contemporaries and society that you begin to fault/doubt the very values by which you live your life or the very promise that God had given you?Have you ever been faced with such a seemingly impossible task(s) that everyone and everything around you says cannot be done yet you can’t seem to shake off the need to have it done? Are you perhaps in a situation similar to any of the above stated? Or you happen to know someone who is? If your answer is yes, then you’ll agree with me that a frequently asked question by anyone undergoing such is ‘What must I do in situation as this?’ Or rephrased in the words of the Phillipian Jailer, ‘What must I do to be saved?’

The Book of Ecclesiastes 7:14 reads “In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider.”Well, if this is the answer, then there’s got to be something missing as anyone would readily ask, consider what?! If what I must do to be saved in the days of adversity is to consider, then what must I consider?

But verse 13 of the same chapter in book of Ecclesiastes reads “Consider the work of God: For who can make straight what He has made crooked?” Now without being too rigid, the verse could easily have read, “Consider the work of God: For who can make crooked what He has made straight?” I don’t know what exactly it is you’re facing currently, but I do know that the way out of it, is to consider the Lord and His work which could be translated as His ability, His potency, His track record and pedigree.

Now in the days of our adversity, we all consider; but the problem is that we do the exact opposite of what the scripture request we do. We often consider the situation itself and the circumstances surrounding it rather than consider He who is our sure way out of it. Most times, we consider what the world around us is saying, we consider the financial weight of the task at hand, we consider the degree to which the disease had eaten into us, we consider the doctors medical report, we consider the stories of people who in times past have tried and failed, ye! we so consider the negative and evil report of the devil whereas we are meant to consider Jehovah! in whom there’s no impossibility.

But what is the risk/danger of considering the situation itself or the circumstances surrounding it, some may ask? Well, the answer is quite simple. As long as you focus on the problem, it holds you bound to it but not only that, it drowns/sinks you deeper into it. So the more you consider the problem, the more of the problem you get into until you ultimately end up in depression or despair. Also, considering the problem or circumstances surrounding you means you may never get to move past where you are for “he who considers the wind will not sow, and he who regards the clouds will not reap.” (Ecclesiates 11:4) Here’s a classic example to further explain this.

Matthew 14:25-29. Here we see that Jesus came to His disciples walking on the sea and Peter who was on the boat with the rest said “Lord, If it is You, command me to come to You on the water.” So He said “Come”. And when peter had come down out of the boat, he walked on the water to go to Jesus. WOW!!!! Peter walked on water, defying the very laws of nature that govern the existence of life on earth. He did the impossible! Conquered the odds and smashed the record books while the other disciples were still afraid and hugging tight to their seats on the boat.

You see, it doesn’t matter if it had never been done before, it doesn’t matter if the very laws of nature are against it, it doesn’t matter if everyone who tried it before you failed woefully and bowed their heads in shame, it doesn’t matter if the odds are highly against you, it doesn’t matter if a woman have never been elected president in your country, it doesn’t even matter if other believers, spirit filled and tongue speaking, sit back with folded arms or even magnify the impossibility of the task, the only thing that matters is that you have the command of the Lord “COME!”. I don’t know what the Lord has commanded you to do but dare! Dare to obey His command irrespective of the circumstances that may surround you and watch yourself achieve the impossible, to the awe of every other person.Peter dared to believe the command of the Lord and acted instinctively on it which had him do the impossible but here’s where it gets interesting.

Verse 30 reads, “But when he saw the wind was boisterous (impetuous, rough and stormy) he was afraid; and began to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me.”Earlier, peter considered the command of the Lord and that’s why he could do the impossible; but when he considered the wind for it was boisterous, he became afraid and began to sink. Even though he considered the wind and began to sink, we must laud peter because if he had considered the wind before the command, he probably wouldn’t have stepped out of the boat in the first place just like the rest of the disciples.The truth of the matter is, when you have a word/command from the Lord, afflictions will definitely come for the words sake as scripture has said, but it’s your choice what you consider: the potency and ability of He who has commanded/instructed you or the situations surrounding you, either of which determines whether you’ll succeed or be defeated.

Take for example Abraham, who had a promise from God that he’ll be a father; even the father of nations yet remained childless for as long as he considered his age and that of his wife and its biological implications. But when he changed his focus of consideration, Isaac came forth.So Romans 4:19-22 reads “And being not weak in faith, he considered NOT his own body now dead, when he was about a hundred years old, neither yet the deadness of Sarah’s womb: He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strong in faith, giving glory to God; And being persuaded that,what he had promised, he was able also to perform.” Amazing!

From this text we get to learn a lot. First, that considering the situation instead of the faithfulness of God is unbelief, which would cause you to stagger at the promises of God. Remember that the children of Isreal did not enter God’s rest as a result of unbelief even though it was promised them. (Hebrews 3:7-19) Secondly, that considering God in the midst of adversity steadiest your heart, builds your faith and causes thanksgiving to flow forth from within you which is often referred to as the ‘victory note’, and these will eventually keep you steadfast until your deliverance is complete, “For he that endures to the end shall be saved.”The bible says also that “faith comes from hearing and hearing by the word of God” thus, when you continually consider God by taking heed to his words and the testimonies of His saints, your faith is built and the more you consider these, the bigger your faith grows until like Abraham, you are fully persuaded, unmoved and without doubt.

This is how you can earn your victory in times of adversity : by choosing to ignore your challenges and to focus on God. You have to consciously put away anything that doesn’t add to your faith but does to your fears and doubt. These are negative reports, which made certain people among the Isrealites not to enter the promise land.(Deutronomy 1:26-38) Deal earnestly with the information you allow into you via what you see and what you hear. Be ruthless against anything/anyone that tries to lure you towards fear and not faith be it tweets, videos, facebook posts and even news reports. Guard that heart of yours jealously.

From Abraham, to Joshua, to David and many others in scriptures who received incredible victories, the secret is the same; Consider God!Irrespective of what you’re faced with, Today, God is asking you “I Am the God of all flesh: is there anything too impossible for me to do?”